You know, I understand why people do what they do in this week’s Dustinland. When something bad happens, people naturally want to cheer you up. So they rely on these old cliches like “It was a blessing in disguise,” and it’s not really such a bad thing, but it definitely can get pretty annoying after hearing it from numerous people. Sometimes you just want someone to say, “Yeah man, that totally sucks. I can imagine what you’re going through.” You just want someone to agree with you, someone to be there so you can just let it all out, someone who can just listen. I know people just want to help, but sometimes the last thing someone needs when things are going wrong is someone to tell them how actually, things are going right.